An angry female friend
Posted 27 August 2006 - 08:11 AM
Posted 27 August 2006 - 08:45 AM
Anyway, wisdom is the end of youth, and tears are part of romance so perhaps I shouldn't make you old by this advice but you sounded in pain so...
Edited by fleamailman, 27 August 2006 - 08:47 AM.
Posted 27 August 2006 - 08:47 AM
she sent me an email and we exchanged a few very long emails and I made a few promises so everything went perfectly. she forgave me for my dumb actions. now we are back to being good friends. I took the advice about sincereity and just reminded her of all the good times we had together and she was touched by my sincerety we worked it out.
I think we are closer than before because of the fight.
One thing i learnt, is that guys really need to sit down for 10 minutes and just think about what you have done and why she's mad. Cause the majority of the problems is that the guys think that it wasn't that big of a deal but they are apologizing just for the sake of making an apology without actually feeling sorry. Giving her some time to cool off is a very good idea too, because when ppl are angry they say things that they don't really mean to, and if you talk or argue in that state it just makes everything worse than they are. They best thing to do is just say sry and give her some time to cool down.
I am grateful for all the help that every 1 provided, and i think i am fortunate to have an understanding friend who forgave me. Now all i have to do is to get her a nice present......
Posted 27 August 2006 - 09:11 AM
Posted 29 August 2006 - 07:00 AM
just as a note here....the least "manly" of all men...are those who cannot effectively express their emotions and feelings to the ones they love, be that a male friend (i gave every one of my good friends a hug every morning at school...if that's "girly" or "gay"...sorry...but i loved them very much as my friends...and you never know when someone might die and they may never know how much they meant to you) or girl friends (not girlfriends...i hugged them too)...or your signifigant other (girlfriend, boyfriend...whatever)....men who are "too macho" to show their emotions and true feelings are cowards and in my book...no where near being a true mature man.
One biggy never express true feelings to women, womens minds work in starnge and mysterious ways and will find mens true feelings shocking and digsuting, unless you are some girly man and can think like they do but if you could do that you wouldnt be in the mess.
Posted 29 August 2006 - 09:08 AM
Posted 29 August 2006 - 09:14 AM
easy sollution...break someone's collar bone in the principles office with the principle looking at you...people tend not to worry/care/make fun of you for/about what you do after that HAHAHAHA
Hmmm but the guys hugging thing... wouldn't work too well in high school. not a matter of macho... just a matter of survival
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