I have gotten this working , here's how I went about it:
The first attempt:I tried installing the drivers for the second card through the device manager but it didn't work, even when I pointed it at the folder for the 169.02 drivers. Then I read through the documentation for those drivers. I'm pretty sure they don't even support series 7 cards, as you can only get them if you select series 8 cards in the download wizard at nvidia.com.
The second attempt:Anyway, I had a .rared copy of the 163.71 driver folder (already extracted) that I previously had installed just in case I thought I needed them. So I just pasted that into the nvidia folder on my C drive. Then I pointed the device manager and installed the drivers. And bam installation completed and I restarted.
Distaster:On boot up I enabled the second monitor and dragged over my little OtaClock (widget). Directly after that windows became a slideshow, running at about 1 FPM (frame per minute). This was very bad.
Damage control:Safe mode.
Uninstall.
Restart.
Safe mode.
Driver Cleaner.
Restart.
Third attempt:This time I was at a loss of what to do, so on a whim I used the driver CD that came with the card. Installation went just like it always did in the good ol days, both cards were recognized during installation and after a reboot I'm running both monitors just fine. The device manager looks like it should as well:
Epilogue:Using the driver CD seems to have worked, but I have no idea why. These drivers did not extract themselves to a folder on my C: drive like all the other ones I have done. So I don't even know what drivers I have installed. The only indication of version on the CD is
Version 76.8
Windows Vista/XP