OK What I have done so far
First I contacted AT&T was on the phone with them for over 4 hours no resolve we lost connections and they did not bother to call me back.
She did say that my Norton had expired and that could be the problem. So I wen't to my son's computer and burned the download fpr the Norton Removal tool and removed Norton.
Then I burned to DVD for AVG
I removed Norton and INstaled AVG -ran scan it found about 35 cookes and removed them.
Results: no change
Second I came here surfing and it said that I could have malware so I went through all the steps for malware removal. Side note I had to once again go to my son's computer to burn each thing to disc.
Results: it found that in my regestery I had adware popcap and removed it.
Still did not make a difference in my connections.
I am operating XP Pro I purchaced last summer Max antispyware and Uniblue Registry Booster the Uniblue had always came back with 3 errors and even when it said it had fixed them it was allways there. I had contacted Uniblue and they told me it was noting just to ignore it. Now that popcap is removed when Uniblue is ran it comes back with no errors.
I can not get any updates from any place and windows update hang on my bar so I had to go in and disable it.
I did run the rooter rootkit detector and the Old timer list but can not post what it says because it was done on disc and it keeps saying that it can not find word pad on drive D so I can't post what it found.
Third I saw where sonone had posted that I should removed firefox and reload it. I burned firefox and removed it and then reloaded it.
Results: nothing still hangs.
I beleve it is not my internet connections because my son's computer is running wireless off of my connectins and his runs great! So we are getting feed.