My normal defaults to yahoo messenger are for it to not log in automatically and to bring me in as INVISIBLE when I *do* activate it. Apparently, when I access my yahoo email Yahoo Messenger apparently logs me in but I don't even see it. However, people on my messenger list see me as being ONLINE (not INVISIBLE) and message me. I just want to check my email without being signed into messenger and deal with messages of "why don't you message me back?" or "I see u on so I know you're there". I don't want to be rude to people but sometimes I have to check my email and go. This "feature" is really inconvenient for me. I don't want yahoo messenger to come up at all when I check my emails.
Thanks in advance