I was browsing the forums of another site, the name of which will remain a secret* to protect all involved. It is a family friendly site however.
I have been to this site before, but have never seen anything like this before. One of the threads was named "What should I do" or something like that...I read the thread earlier in the day and have forgotten the title.
The poster seems to be a lot like me personality wise from what he posted; he doesn't like to hurt people (mentally, emotionally, or physically) and will wait a while before asking somebody out due to fear of rejection.
In it, this guy talked about how he is currently "going out" with this girl who had cut her wrists previously, before they started to go out. He continues to talk about how he "likes" his current "girlfriend" 's friend. He then asked for advice on what to do.
Later in the thread, someone replied with "why don't you try a #some". The Original Poster then said he was 13 and had already thought about trying that.
Now that I'm done with the story background, onto my commentary.
It is my belief that today's children (anyone from birth until college in my eyes) are growing up way too quickly. I worked theater tech for my town's middle school plays, and I've heard some of the older students (8th, maybe 7th graders) talk about who they did what with and who they think is hot/cute/sexy...what have you. There are fifth graders lying on top of each other during rehearsal, mixed groups going off during breaks, maybe just about anything you could think of.
I'm seeing them grow up in a lot more ways than just that. I was off campus at a restaurant the other day, and this kid, couldn't have been more than 13, kept getting up from his table to talk on the phone. It wasn't his parent's phone, as he pulled it out of his pocket and mommy and daddy never asked for it back. I didn't have a cell phone until I was driving and had a job, and was able to pay for it myself. What did this kid need a cell phone for? At 13, there are very few, if none, places to get a job, and it's not like he had a car. Most likely his parents knew he was either at school, at home, or at a friend’s house, and they knew where he was every minute of everyday. In places where there are plenty of phones for him to call from if he needed to get in touch with them.
Thirdly, what is with today's children's TV programming. I can't stand any of the shows my 7 year old sister watches because I can see the innuendo and stuff that I don't believe she should be exposed to. Even the animated shows are getting bad. Today’s programming always has on at least one show where there is sexual innuendo, suggestive dialogue, or coarse language. If you don't believe me and live in the US, go to either USA or TNT. While parents are ultimately reasonable for what their children are watching, they cannot be with them every minute of every day until the child turns 18 and goes off to college or moves out of the house.
So now that I've voiced my opinion in this long post (page and then some in Word), feel free to reply and tell me (and the world) what you think about this topic.
-Ryan
*Mods and Admins: If you want to read the post that prompted this, feel free to PM me for it. Also feel free to edit parts of this if they fall outside of family-friendly.