Truth is that I already know where this person lives (it's my kids' step-mother) and I'm just wanting to know if SHE's invading MY privacy (well, sort of) by reading my blog. Kind of funny that y'all would perceive it as the other way around. Another question however, is that one of the "features" on the site meter allows me to see the distance of the person reading my blog (in addition to their IP). Do you think this distance would be the user distance or the ISP distance? If I can just get an idea of where the "reader" of the blog is located I can probably figure out if it's her or not. But honestly, if I wanted to stalk the woman, I'd just drive down the road and show up at her house. No thanks!