I will try to provide as much information as I can but do not know where to start. I've spent hours and days hours in each of the days maybe adding up to at least a week since ive been living here reading forum topics. I have learned alot, not everything I remember so this is an educational experience but still very frustrating.
I love to play MMORPG's, and I love to stream videos or music before I fall asleep.
Sometimes my connection will timeout trying to even go to google, as if im being ddos'd or im losing alot of packets. I tried packet analyzers but I dont even know what im looking at

I used Ventrillo with a guild I was in in a game called NeverWinter hosted by PWi. At first I just tried port fowarding which did not fix my problem. Ive reset the router 100 times, changed my IP (I think) and still have problems.
I think the Ventrillo server owner can get my IP and think he may have ddos'd me because I have alot of good items, expensive items in the game and some of the higher ranks took credit for a build I created and later on I get kicked from the guild after denying to go on a private server and make copies of an item I own for one of them to use, after this incident all my loading times (circle spinning for a long time on web browsers) some pages not loading, getting disconnected from my games, but when I am finally not having trouble connecting to them in the first place my characters' skill's are not activated until 5 or 6 seconds I use the hotkey, some NPC's I have to spam click for them to work, and when I run ingame I "Rubberband" like crazy, sometimes I end up in the same spot after running for 10 seconds... every other 10 seconds.
My drivers for my internet are all up to date. I am connected wirelessley, I changed my ports in the router from 1 to 6 to 11 and back since they all work the same. 1 and 11 im sure I forgot the middle one) I've done IP release and IP renew from hitting START+R and getting in the CMD.
I changed my wifi settings on my ethernet adapter in device manager from 10mps to 1gps (lol)
I dont know what else to do Ive tried so many things.
Our ISP is comcast, I am using OPEN DNS for an alternative DNS server (I find it faster than googles 8.8.8.8)
Please help meh D=